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Widowed Dating in New Zealand

A warm, friendly place for widows and widowers in New Zealand to meet people who understand. Whether you are looking for a friend to talk to, someone to share days out with, or a new relationship, take your time and join in your own way. Free to join, and no card needed to create your profile.

Free to join · No card needed to create your profile

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Just a few quick questions.

Firstly, are you a:

We will set who you are looking for to match. Change it if we guess wrong.

Pick one so we know who to show you.

And who are you hoping to meet?

We've picked the usual answer. Change it if it's not yours.

Pick one so we know who to show you.

When were you born?

We show your age, never your date of birth.

Please pick a full date of birth. You need to be 18 or over.

Which country are you in?

This is how we find members near you.

Please pick your country.

What are you hoping for?

We have ticked the one most members pick. Add any others that fit.

Pick at least one so we know what to look for.

What do you enjoy getting out for?

Up to six across this and the next screen. Skip it if none fit.

And at home?

These are things people often chat about.

Last step. Where should we send your matches?

You will choose your password on the next screen.

Ready and waiting on your profile:

    Please add your first name.

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      How It Works

      Widowed Singles Near Me is a friendly community for people who have lost a partner. Join at your own pace, chat when you feel ready, and meet people who understand.

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        STEP ONE

        Create A Profile

        Quick and simple to sign up. Create your account, then tell us about you, who you would like to meet, and the things you enjoy.

        JOIN
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        STEP TWO

        Meet Your Matches

        See members who share your interests. Explore your matches, use the search, or simply browse profiles near you.

        MATCH
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        STEP THREE

        Explore The Feed

        Read what members are sharing. Post a status, a thought or a photo, and start friendly conversations.

        BROWSE
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        STEP FOUR

        Upgrade To VIP

        VIP membership unlocks all the interactive features, including unlimited private messaging.

        UPGRADE

      Widowed singles in New Zealand

      From the far north to the deep south, New Zealand widows and widowers are meeting people who understand what it is to lose a partner. Pick your region when you sign up and we will show you members close by. Take things gently: friendship first is a perfectly good place to start.

      Membership prices in New Zealand

      Joining and creating your profile is free. Prices are in New Zealand dollars (NZD) and you always see the full price before you pay.

      VIP

      Includes everything in the free Classic membership, plus:

      • Unrestricted messaging, send as many messages as you like
      • Advanced search filters
      • Exclusive chat room access
      • Private group chats for up to 50 people
      • Rewind your swipes
      • See everyone who likes you
      • Priority comment placement
      1 week$24.99renews until you cancel
      1 month$49.95renews until you cancel
      3 months$114.95$38.32 a month · renews until you cancel
      6 months$199.95$33.33 a month · renews until you cancel
      12 months$239.88$19.99 a month · one payment, does not renew
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      VIP Plus

      Includes everything in VIP, plus:

      • Exclusive matches, a curated pool of premium matches
      • Priority placement for your messages and likes
      • Top of the match stack in daily suggestions
      • Boosted profile visibility (purchasable add-on)
      • Super Match (purchasable add-on)
      1 week$27.99renews until you cancel
      1 month$72.81renews until you cancel
      3 months$179.87$59.96 a month · renews until you cancel
      6 months$256.89$42.82 a month · renews until you cancel
      12 months$416.62$34.72 a month · one payment, does not renew
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